Heat the oil in a large pot over medium-high heat. Once hot, add the onion and sauté for 8–10 minutes, stirring occasionally, until the onion is golden.
Step 2
Add the okra and peppers and sauté for 7–8 minutes, stirring occasionally, until lightly browned. Add the tomato paste, salt, sugar, and 1½ cups water. Cover the pot, reduce the heat to medium-low, and cook for 15 minutes.
Step 3
Meanwhile, in a large bowl, mix all of the meatball ingredients until well combined. With oiled hands, form the mixture into golf ball-sized meatballs.
Step 4
Uncover the pot and add the parsley, lemon zest, lemon juice, black pepper, and enough water to cover the contents by 1 inch. Increase the heat to medium and bring the mixture to a gentle simmer. Taste and adjust the seasoning as needed.
Step 5
Gently lower the meatballs into the okra and tomato sauce. Reduce the heat to medium-low, cover, and cook for 30 minutes. Serve warm over steamed white rice.