Make the rice pudding: Put the rice in a medium saucepan, add the water, and bring to a simmer over medium-high heat. Add the milk and vanilla seeds, if using, and stir to mix well. As soon as the milk begins to simmer, reduce the heat to low, partially cover the pan, and cook, stirring occasionally, until the liquid is absorbed and the rice pudding is thick, about 45 minutes. Toward the end of cooking, stir the mixture more often to keep it from sticking or burning on the bottom of the pot. If using vanilla extract, add it at this point.