Cart0
Your cart is empty
Shop products

Shared by Ilan + Gillian Benatar

Three generations. Three Curries. Three Continents.

Three generations. Three Curries. Three Continents.

Family Journey

Cape Town, South AfricaRaanana, IsraelBeit Zayit
New York City
1 recipes
Chicken Curry With Cloves, Cardamon, and Coconut Milk

Chicken Curry With Cloves, Cardamon, and Coconut Milk

4 - 6 servings1h 30min

Ingredients

  • 3 Yukon Gold potatoes, peeled and cut into 1 ½” chunks
  • 5 medium carrots, peeled and sliced into ½” rounds  
  • ¼ cup vegetable oil + 2 tablespoons
  • 2 medium yellow onions, diced
  • 2 garlic cloves, peeled and thinly sliced
  • 1 4-5” piece of fresh ginger, grated (about ½ cup)
  • 2 tablespoons mild curry powder  
  • 2 teaspoons turmeric
  • 1 teaspoon cumin
  • 1 ½  tablespoons salt
  • 2 tablespoons tomato paste
  • 4 cardamom pods, crushed
  • 3-4 whole cloves
  • 2 ½ tablespoons apricot jam (or any other orange colored jam)
  • ½ teaspoon ground Indian chili pepper, optional
  • 1 ½ pounds boneless skinless chicken thighs, cut into 1” cubes
  • 1 ½ cups frozen peas
  • ½ can (13.5 oz.) of full fat coconut milk

For serving:

  • Basmati rice
  • Plain yogurt
  • 1 bunch cilantro, cleaned and leaves picked
Recipes
1
Chicken Curry With Cloves, Cardamon, and Coconut Milk

Chicken Curry With Cloves, Cardamon, and Coconut Milk

4 - 6 servings1h 30min

Ingredients

  • 3 Yukon Gold potatoes, peeled and cut into 1 ½” chunks
  • 5 medium carrots, peeled and sliced into ½” rounds  
  • ¼ cup vegetable oil + 2 tablespoons
  • 2 medium yellow onions, diced
  • 2 garlic cloves, peeled and thinly sliced
  • 1 4-5” piece of fresh ginger, grated (about ½ cup)
  • 2 tablespoons mild curry powder  
  • 2 teaspoons turmeric
  • 1 teaspoon cumin
  • 1 ½  tablespoons salt
  • 2 tablespoons tomato paste
  • 4 cardamom pods, crushed
  • 3-4 whole cloves
  • 2 ½ tablespoons apricot jam (or any other orange colored jam)
  • ½ teaspoon ground Indian chili pepper, optional
  • 1 ½ pounds boneless skinless chicken thighs, cut into 1” cubes
  • 1 ½ cups frozen peas
  • ½ can (13.5 oz.) of full fat coconut milk

For serving:

  • Basmati rice
  • Plain yogurt
  • 1 bunch cilantro, cleaned and leaves picked

“You don’t get me without my curry,” says Gillian Benatar. Without her spicy beef curry, “they won’t invite me,” she says about her husband’s family. It’s the recipe she brings to holiday celebrations and to shabbat dinners in Israel. “I have no choice…. Once I think I managed to squeeze out of [making it] and no one would get over it.”

A rendition of this curry has been made by three generations of her family, in three countries, on three continents. “We’re...nomads,” exclaims Gillian’s son Ilan, who shared his version of the curry, made with chicken and thickened with coconut milk, with us.

The curry tradition originated in the family with Gillian’s grandmother Cilla who moved to South Africa in the late 1800s as part of a wave of Lithuanian Jewish emigration. “She was a great cook of very Lithuanian style foods,” explains Gillian. Cilla’s holiday table was laid with gefilte fish made from scratch, chopped liver, herring, and tzimmes or sweet cooked carrots.

But, as Cilla settled into her new home country, her culinary repertoire expanded. Borrowing a tradition from a local Indian community, she started to make curry, tinged with sweetness. “She was very proud of herself that she stepped out of the box,” Gillian adds. It was a staple dish when Gillian would visit, but she never made it with her grandmother.

Growing up in the era of Apartheid, “South African girls didn’t go into the kitchen,” she explains. We were very spoiled. It was a despicable way of life.” She only entered the kitchen around the time of her immigration to Israel in 1971.

In her new adopted home, she set out to recreate Cilla’s curry recipe. No longer able to find the same boxed curry blend, she purchased a different one and combined it with what she knew from her grandmother. She also tweaked it to her taste, making it spicier. The curry became a staple of Gillian’s cooking and a regular part of the dinner cycle when Ilan was growing up in the 1980s.

When he moved to a moshav (an organized community) outside of Jerusalem in his 20s, he found himself in a similar position to his mom at his age. “Suddenly, I had to cook for myself,” he says.

When he started to date his now-wife Naama Shefi, the founder of the Jewish Food Society, he returned to the curry, calling his mother for the recipe. Thinking back, Ilan laughs at the idea of trying to woo with curry. “I tried to impress her with it, which is kind of weird, it’s not a very romantic dish,” he says.  

Perhaps not, but it was beloved by Naama and it migrated with him when he moved to the U.S. to be with her. “That’s where it really made the jump from my mother’s recipe [to mine],” Ilan says. He adjusted the spicing, adding cloves and cardamom, thickened the sauce with coconut milk, and replaced the beef for chicken. Over the years, Naama added her touch, with a splash of yogurt and fresh cilantro, bringing the recipe to its current iteration. While the dish has become a regular staple of their shared home, it continues to register as a special occasion dish, reminiscent of the early days of their relationship.

Gillian hasn’t tried Ilan’s rendition, but she isn’t bothered by the changes. With each generation, this curry moves and morphs to the cook’s palate.

“This recipe is the product of three generations of immigrants, spanning over four continents,” Ilan says. Thinking ahead to when his five-year-old daughter Ella is grown up, Ilan says: “If Ella ever migrates to Australia, perhaps it will reach its final destination.”

Gillian Benatar as a young girl.